DOES IT MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD OR ARE YOU FEARING?
It’s time for a pleasure reset people.
8 weeks of you and me being brutally honest about where in life you are avoiding pleasure and turning that DIAL to the other direction so you are always choosing life because you want to, instead of life choosing you. Feels oh so good. Oh yes, oh yes oh yes. So fricken good!
How many times do you find yourself feeling weighted down by the things you need to do, by all the self care items on your list, by all your daily tasks. What would it be like if you felt good each time you moved towards doing instead?
No more using willpower as that is a limited resource. Whereas pleasure is unlimited! And the more pleasure you have the easier everything gets as it releases Nitric Oxide which rebalances all your other neurotransmitters so you increase your capacity, your capability and decrease your limitations. I know all about this as I have been studying pleasure for years and even have a Masters in Human Factors and years of consulting which taught me all about this.
If something doesn’t feel good you just wont do it for long. You’ll avoid it. You’ll make excuses. It wont happen. And what a shit way to do life. Right!
So come on over to another way to do life. A way where you are choosing what feels good. Where you get to pull apart all that stuff you have been using willpower to do and make new choices. I’m not saying that you’ll stop doing everything – well you might! But what we’ll also be doing is changing your experience of life. This world is geared around hard work. Around you needing to be working at stuff, efforting. Efforting at life, efforting at orgasms. There is another way. It takes a breaking down of everything and giving your body time to connect to it in a new way. It takes learning ways to EXPAND your pleasure. It’s actually really fricken simple. I’ll teach you how. We’ll do it together with a group of super power women who are also in the profession of helping others, psychologists, psychotherapists, osteopaths, physios, healers, mentors, coaches. All you out there that have got used to putting the client first and have forgotten to chose your life based on pleasure. Its time for a PLEASURE RESET.
This is sustainability. This is the best medicine for pain, for your mental health, for wellness, for your gut, for your business and for your orgasms.
This is how it’ll look. Start in April. 8 weeks.
• Weekly audios for you to listen to while you walk, drive, cook, exercise.
• Q&A live calls on Zoom to ask questions, clear out the debri between you and pleasure on a body level and be inspired by all the other baddass world changer women.
• Living on the unlimited resource of pleasure. No more living on willpower.
• Lessons on how to play your body so you can get out of the busy mind and into experiencing pleasure. That’ll include body tools including super power ways to use your breath – if you didn’t know already specific ways to breathe give you a way into your pleasure.
• How to embody pleasure and your sexuality without being affected by bitchyness or feeling unsafe.
• Unwinding body tension including in the pelvis to access deeper pleasure
• Getting grounded to increase your capacity and capability and reduce your limitations.
• Orgasmic Yoga and rituals.
PM me to get on the list and find out all the details.
🔥➳ MESSAGE ME IF YOU'RE READY FOR EXPERT GUIDANCE INTO YOUR EROTIC NATURE SO YOU CAN ACTIVATE MORE PLEASURE AND MANIFEST YOUR DEEPEST DESIRES
I'm a wild one. Wild nature. Wild swimming and even better if naked. The first dive under the water too my breath away with an intensity that felt like my heart might stop and I could drown as it was so cold. Then again and again I dived in. Feeling my nakedness in the icy mountain water bringing me alive, cleansing me and making me feel wild and free.
I grew up wild and free. Running about in nature in the community where I lived in the Coromandel Peninsula in NZ. Then I got lost along the way. Thought I wanted to be a corporate professional wearing smart clothes. Distanced myself from the hippie childhood I had. Got a 'proper' job. Ended up in a relationship that I never really choose, just went along with and felt trapped in. Lost my power.
Well it took me 30 years before I started questioning it all. I Ended Everything. The relationship. The child I almost had. The job. Let it all go. Started to Choose Self. Started to listen to the whispers and shouting of my body that it wanted something different. That this life was draining not life giving. Ended it all. And as I did I experienced an Awakening. It felt like the blinkers had been taken off. I could see the world again with all it's beauty. And wow, I was blown away.
Standing on the deck of a ship in the Black Sea in Turkey. It was my birthday. I was going through a divorce. I was alone. I was afraid I'd never have children. And I had this Awakening. All my senses came back alive. When I got back home I was cycling through Bristol and I felt so alive! I could feel the breeze on my skin. I could feel every muscle moving in my body. I was free. It was an incredible feeling that I will never forget.
And now almost 38 and I am Being my wild naked self as much as possible. This is what healed me after the trauma of Ending It All. Coming into nature, swimming naked, dancing naked in the sunshine and being childlike free in my body. This is what brings me home. This is what Turns Me on.
Sorry other walkers on the path - I hope I inspired you and didn't shock you too much. Thank you Kate Craig Brown Photography for capturing the moment.
P.s. 🔥 send me a message to experience whole new levels of ecstasy in your body. To create an Orgasmic Life. For Sensual Enlightenment. To create deep Connection in Relationship. To call in Love that you are so so ecstatic about. Message me.
When was the last time you spent two hours dedicated just to your pleasure, to sex, to intimacy?
I have started getting up at 5am. 5am! I am a lover of sleep and my normal working day now that I am an entrepreneur has been 11am for the last two years. I adore moving to my own rhythm. It's one of the things I love about no longer having a job working for someone else.
Why do I do this crazy 5am to myself? I've decided that getting a sweat on in the morning is good for me. I want to be fit and strong as I love how I feel when I am. To motivate myself I've have done the crazy thing of joining a morning Bootcamp.
I'm a determined person. When I want something and set my mind to it I even impress myself with how much I can stick to it. There was a moment when I missed one morning and my critter brain considered not going to the next session too. But the Mistress of Bootcamp messaged me and asked me why I didn't show. She got me back in the rhythm.
I'm telling you all this because so many people come to me saying they lack sexual desire. And they really miss it. That their sexual arousal is hard to access and they feel really stuck. If you can relate to that I need to tell you something.
Women are like a pot of water. If we don't get heated up very often we are cold. So if you are not putting in the time for your sexual pleasure, that pot may even be freezing. When the pot is cold there is no sexual desire. Because.... Sexual Desire happens only when you FEEL Sexual Arousal. When you feel that good feeling in your body you desire SEX.
If you want to have a hot sex life then it needs to be prioritised. Before other things like the washing, the dishes, the cleaning, the ....... RADICAL suggestion. Imagine prioritising your pleasure.
Women can feel self indulgent, self serving, guilty for making sex and pleasure important. Like as if self indulgence is a bad thing! This is society's messages. Listen to your body not society. I dare you to answer this - how do you feel after a delicious sexual experience? Is everything that much easier too? Do you feel joyful? Happy? Capable? Confident? Creative? Like a superstar?
Let your body be your guide.
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"I Am a Playful Erotic Being" 🔥
Take that as a mantra and see what you choose for your self instead of all your busyness
There are things that you can do for 5 minutes every day while you shower that will make a big difference to keeping your pot warm. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Let's not get all serious about it. Instead try inviting the playful you to lead. Put on some sexy panties. Put on your favourite music. Shake that booty. Cover yourself in delicious smelling oil. Have a bath. Even better, allow yourself to have an orgasm. Allow your body to have some pleasure.
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