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When was the last time you spent two hours dedicated just to your pleasure, to sex, to intimacy?
I have started getting up at 5am. 5am! I am a lover of sleep and my normal working day now that I am an entrepreneur has been 11am for the last two years. I adore moving to my own rhythm. It's one of the things I love about no longer having a job working for someone else.
Why do I do this crazy 5am to myself? I've decided that getting a sweat on in the morning is good for me. I want to be fit and strong as I love how I feel when I am. To motivate myself I've have done the crazy thing of joining a morning Bootcamp.
I'm a determined person. When I want something and set my mind to it I even impress myself with how much I can stick to it. There was a moment when I missed one morning and my critter brain considered not going to the next session too. But the Mistress of Bootcamp messaged me and asked me why I didn't show. She got me back in the rhythm.
I'm telling you all this because so many people come to me saying they lack sexual desire. And they really miss it. That their sexual arousal is hard to access and they feel really stuck. If you can relate to that I need to tell you something.
Women are like a pot of water. If we don't get heated up very often we are cold. So if you are not putting in the time for your sexual pleasure, that pot may even be freezing. When the pot is cold there is no sexual desire. Because.... Sexual Desire happens only when you FEEL Sexual Arousal. When you feel that good feeling in your body you desire SEX.
If you want to have a hot sex life then it needs to be prioritised. Before other things like the washing, the dishes, the cleaning, the ....... RADICAL suggestion. Imagine prioritising your pleasure.
Women can feel self indulgent, self serving, guilty for making sex and pleasure important. Like as if self indulgence is a bad thing! This is society's messages. Listen to your body not society. I dare you to answer this - how do you feel after a delicious sexual experience? Is everything that much easier too? Do you feel joyful? Happy? Capable? Confident? Creative? Like a superstar?
Let your body be your guide.
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"I Am a Playful Erotic Being" 🔥
Take that as a mantra and see what you choose for your self instead of all your busyness
There are things that you can do for 5 minutes every day while you shower that will make a big difference to keeping your pot warm. It doesn't have to be a big deal. Let's not get all serious about it. Instead try inviting the playful you to lead. Put on some sexy panties. Put on your favourite music. Shake that booty. Cover yourself in delicious smelling oil. Have a bath. Even better, allow yourself to have an orgasm. Allow your body to have some pleasure.
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