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You’ve already got the money, and you are a successful professional but the love isn’t there because you have been hiding who you are
Trying to receive
Trying to have the thing that you want and BE WELL BEHAVED AND LOOK BEAUTIFUL
You might not even realise you are doing it because you have put on the well behaved persona for so many years as a professional that it is unconscious. Just the way that you are.
THIS IS ALL POINTLESS,
because, in that trying you will attract towards you people that have all the power, you will settle for something
and you won’t meet the ONE GREAT LOVE that you actually desire
YOUR POWER COMES FROM BEING FULLY WHO YOU ARE
And you being fully as you are, as a woman, as someone who carries the Wolf Woman in her bones,
It means being and expressing all of you, including your wildness
Fully showing up as all of who you are.
The only thing worth trying is, trying to be more of you, trying to be liked is pointless.
My partner of over 6 years time and time again shows me that he is proud to be with a Wild Woman
He says, yip, youre a wild one, I am with a wild woman, and he is so proud.
On our second date we had roast duck and I was looking at his BONES
At his BoNes and the Bones on his plate.
I asked him if I could have his bones, as I love crunching on bones, licking the marrow out of them, I think he was surprised.
I enjoyed them, I licked my fingers.
He made sure to see me every day from then on. Coming to my door even if only for a few minutes.
MOST WOMEN ON DATES ARE TRYING SO HARD TO BE LIKED
Trying to be the person you think you need to be in order for someone to love you
In order for someone to choose you
It is such a core need to be loved, and be liked and to have love in your life
For me, for years I was always trying to be what I thought someone else wanted
I was dating people and thinking, yeah this doesn’t feel great for me for this reason, but they are great in other ways
I WAS SO WANTING TO BE LIKED and to be CHOSEN
My whole life I had always been chosen and only dated men who had chosen me
I’d never risked being the one who went for what I really really really wanted
After I ended my marriage there was a period where I was choosing.
I BECAME THIS HUNTRESS
I was literally going out and hunting men.
It was amazing, I loved it,
I would look around and think, ooh, who do I want tonight
I had been married for 9 years and I got to choose.
Some of that was not coming from a healthy place as I was wanting this intimacy
I wasn’t use to being alone . I was feeling loneliness.
But there was this power in it.
IN THAT CHOOSING, I HAD MY FIRST EXPERIENCES OF REJECTION.
I am not saying it was the first time ever I fancied someone and not had them choose me.
But I’d never really been putting myself on the line and chosing before. Any partner I had they had always chosen me, and I knew then that they really wanted me. And I was always the one ending the relationship.
SO in this process of me choosing I had my first experiences of rejection.
I remember one guy that I’d been dating for about 6 weeks.
In my mind I had already decided I was more worthy and valued then him, like he was damn lucky to be dating me, in my mind he had issues, but I was willing to settle for them
HE REJECTED ME, I was like what!
I was going to a friends house for dinner that night and I had to go and do some meditation for a bit when I arrived because I was feeling so icky.
It was painful.
SOMETHING SHIFTED IN ME
When I met my partner I was in no way going to settle
I knew what I wanted in relationship
I wanted depth, I wanted to be chased,
I was fully choosing
I didn't need him even though I was still longing for Love.
Love is what it is all about for me. Because I need to live a life of depth, with another person that is an experience of depth that I crave if I don't have it.
I will help you become the person who is choosing
Who has the full experience of really choosing
And no longer settling
I know this is the part of your life that you are missing.
You are already being this amazing professional
This part of your life where you are not getting the healthy relationships you desire and not having the one true love that you long for
Through a process of undomestication, untaming, and coming home to who you really are, everything will change for you in relationships.
For instance my client Lindsay had left an abusive marriage with a narcissist and after our work for the first time ever was chased and chose for the first time ever an amazing partner, no narcissism, totally in love and both in their power in this new relationship.
My client Claire who kept having one night stands with people that she didn’t really fancy but wanted the intimacy. Once she claimed her own pleasure and could have incredible orgasms on her own and we bought her into her power, then for the first time met a man and became lovers where the intimacy felt healthy, she was fully choosing and she received adoring respect and care.
PM me if you are ready for expert guidance so that you become the woman you’ve always dreamt of being.